How can you achieve personal breakthroughs on adult dates? I mean aren’t these two totally different things? Personal breakthroughs, of course, involve personal realizations that enable you to get over insecurities and other personal trauma to become a better person overall. Oftentimes, when we talk about personal breakthroughs, we’re talking about spiritual, emotional, and psychological evolution and growth.

Adult dates, on the other hand involve, to be vulgar about it, putting a penis in a tight hole. It would seem that these are two totally different concepts. Well, not quite. You see, for you to successfully go on an adult date, several things have to happen. You have to get over your insecurity. At the very least, you need to project a calm and quiet confidence that gets women excited. That’s what women are looking for. They want men who radiate strength and they want men who make them feel comfortable and make them feel that they matter.

I have a secret to tell you. Most women don’t really care about looks. You can look like a complete and total pile of shit but if you say the right things and more importantly do the right things, and make women feel comfortable and you have a great sense of humor, those panties are going to drop.

Seriously, I’ve seen it happen time and time again where I go to a club and this fat nasty slob that look like fucked up versions of Jabba the Hut from Star Wars walk away with fucking models, man! Seriously, what happened? Me and my friends who spend a lot of time in the gym, earning pretty good money, looking really good, buying designer shit are just left dumbfounded. We go home holding our dicks and feeling lonely and were wondering why the fuck this happened?

Well, those days are long in the past. I’ve figured out the secret. The secret is that those fat nasty ugly guys, they may be broke. They may be dumb as a bag of rocks. But they’ve got one thing going. They are comfortable in their skin. When you’re comfortable in your skin, you make people around you comfortable. You break out in jokes, you make people feel go about themselves, and that’s where the magic happens. It’s not like these chicks magically got hypnotized and think that a pile of shit or a frog, all of a sudden becomes Brad Pitt. It doesn’t work that way.

They still know that this guy looks like a pile of crap but hey, guess what? She’s going to spread her legs for him because hey, he made her feel comfortable. Not just in the atmosphere or a setting but he made her feel comfortable about herself. That’s how it works man! Guys who are pimps who make their living buying and selling pussy, they master the art of being comfortable in their own skin, these guys have one thing in common. They don’t want to be anybody else. They accept themselves, they love themselves, and it shows.

It’s not that they’re conceited. It’s not that they are cocky and over confident. No, they just learn to love themselves. You might think that you have a big nose. You might think that one of your legs is shorter than the other. You might think that you walk like a dog that got hit by a truck. Whatever the case may be, allow yourself to love yourself. If you’re able to do that, that personal breakthrough will help you not just hook up with chicks online and offline.

It is not just about getting adult dates, that’s the basic shit. If you’re able to allow yourself to love yourself more, you would be able to respect yourself enough to do your best in all areas of your life. This means that you would be able to get promoted more at work, get better business deals if you’re a business person, and in so many other things, the bottom line is you would be able to take your life to the next level because you’ve allowed yourself this internal breakthrough that breaks down so many walls that you have put up throughout the years.

Part of the reason why most people fail to achieve the success that they’re otherwise capable of achieving is not because there’s just some evil person holding them back. Most of the time, say 99.9% of the time it’s because of the things that we chose to believe. Most of the limitations that are holding you back, they are self-created. They are as powerless as the Boogeyman your parents used to frighten you with when you were a kid. Get over it. Move on.

If you’re able to do that, your life would be full of personal breakthroughs. You’d be an unstoppable success machine. Becoming a pussy magnet is just a tiny portion of that. I mean hey, you can achieve victory every single second you’re alive. How awesome would that kind of life be? Do it.